Posted on 14 June 2012.
BY IRIS B. HOLTON
Sentinel City Editor
Oftentimes, the lives of some family members seem to mirror each other. In some instances, they even experience the same things at the same time.
This is the case with Tampa brothers, Vincent Campbell and Willie Campbell, III. Both men are single parents, entrepreneurs, and ministers.
The duo are the only offspring of Mr. and Mrs. Willie (Frances) Campbell and both are assistant ministers at Embassy International Christian Center. They are also graduates of Hillsborough High School.
Willie, 37, is self-employed as a Computer Technician. As an entrepreneur, he has the opportunity to attend conferences and some of the functions his children may be involved.
Willie is the father of four children, Daveen, 17, Jordan, 15, Tia, 11, and 7-year-old Justin. He was by no means a stranger to fatherhood, but his experience was one of having two parents. He obtained custody of his two younger children after a divorce. “I was not really prepared for being a single parent. It’s a lot easier when you’re married,” he said.
However, for the last year, he has learned a lot about parenthood. One of the most obvious, “You can’t treat them all the same. You have to realize that each child has his or her own personality.”
Willie describes himself as somewhat of a flexible parent most of the time. However, when it comes to their education, his children know that school is important.
“Some things I’m strict about, and school is one of them. If they don’t pass, it’s my fault. They are not going to do their best unless you’re on top of things.”
As for single parenthood, Willie’s advice to others is, “It’s challenging, but keep your head up and have an idea in mind of how you want your children to be because what you produce is what you get.”
His brother, Vincent’s journey into single parenthood came about suddenly. He and his wife, the late Janice Campbell had a daughter, and she was pregnant with their second child.
Two weeks after Jonathan was born, his wife died. Vincent, 34, suddenly found himself raising a 2-year-old daughter and a newborn son.
“The challenges of raising a newborn were new to me. I really had to learn about programs such as WIC and Head Start, which helped a lot. I’m doing a lot better, but it was a challenge at first.
“I’ve always been in the youth industry as a mentor. But fatherhood is a whole different ballgame,” he said.
Vincent describes himself as a kind of “laid-back, but disciplined type father.” For him, each day is a learning experience.
Both men credit their parents with helping them when possible. Vincent said, “The only way you can really make it, is through the help of God,” and his brother agreed.
Vincent works 40 hours a week, and when time allows, he spends time repairing computers and creating graphic designs.